I hear you. I made an intentional choice to be a beta tester but there were a lot of factors that came together there:
-car for the price (then net maybe 10k more than a nice highlander hybrid)
-capability
-long length of time I keep cars (though you could argue that means I should not beta test).
- knowing I would never be able to get this net pricing on this kind of vehicle again.
- doing enough research to know there are good chargers covering 99.9 percent of my driving - farthest I ever really drive is Stowe and you can easily get there with range by piggybacking thru 87. Then you are surrounded by slow chargers in town.
Somewhere between 2-5 years there are going to be sweet options.
On recycling point, these batteries (at least for riv and I think Tesla) are relatively easy to recycle into solar storage batteries. So you might be north of 80 percent - I do not know.