What is your dream?

Our girls are both still in HS, so we have some time. In some ways, my wife and I are lucky, we can both cut back substantially but also keep working and generating an income stream. I don't think it's such a bad thing to continue to work somewhat in retirement; helps keep one sharp and engaged. Also, my wife and I are on the same page that you need to enjoy all of your life daily and don't just put all of your eggs in the retirement basket. You never know what will happen and when.

About 5 or 6 years ago, I started a new gig. No more commute, a lot of added free time and I could work from anywhere. Pre-Covid, my wife was only in her office at most 2 days a week, now she'll probably never be there again. As far as where we'll end up...as most have said, depends on the kids. I can see us staying here. Considering our proximity to NYC, we have a pretty good situation. I do also want to get a 2nd home in the mountains. That, combined with a month or 2 or 3 renting a small condo or something in SLC mid-winter, I should get the 100 day ski seasons, I've been craving.
 
Check it out, this is a pretty cool dream. Sounds more like a plan at this point.
 
Jeez, am I the youngest guy here at this point? Any dreams other then retirement? My dream is to start a second career as a screen writer. Any tips? My dream used to be to be a cowboy but I did that by age 25 (horse wrangler actually- close enough).
My uncle from the Bronx started in the Catskills and wrote some funny stuff for Carol Burnett and Mel Brooks, they still have ideas on the burners.

Yes this seems to be a seasoned crew on this site, great perspectives
 
Yes this seems to be a seasoned crew on this site, great perspectives

I think this is why Benny is predicting doom for our sport. ?
 
I think this is why Benny is predicting doom for our sport. ?
I agree for most reports
I think smaller hills will pull through better than big companies

But who knows what happens we all find out soon
I hope I wrong.
 
Guys - great discussion.

1. Practical point on managing income and Health Care options.

For folks considering medical care options if they retire with a gap in health insurance: take a look at ObamaCare (this assumes you have enough saved in a capital gains situation to pay for a good portion of your yearly spending). I had looked into this somewhat a few years ago but here are the basics (looks like TJ or Warp would know about some of this):

--Long term capital gains are taxed at 0 until you hit a decent amount of income (75,000ish?). Keep in mind, to have that high of a gain, you are pocketing much more than 75,000. We live in an expensive area but haven't really raised our standard of living too much and feel like we live a relatively luxurious life (albeit with a 10 year old CRV that I love). Our commit/needs side of budget is below that number (admittedly I am lucky enough to have a very generous deal on health insurance).
---401k/403b plans are ordinary income (as are pensions), which is taxed at a much higher rate. It is good to have diversity of income streams if one can (always the hard part and I am not saying I am an expert!)

--I can't remember which tax number ObamaCare uses (Adjusted Gross Income)? but the subsidies are pretty good until the AGI gets somewhat high - perhaps around a similar income level. Again, if you have cap gains, you are pocketing more than the amount than listed on your tax return (say you invested 75,000, sell the capital item for 150,000, you have 150,000 and your cap gain is 75,000).
---I have seen stories that ObamaCare doesn't always have great choices.
---Keep in mind, THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH AGE - just your income (you'll have to google which type of income number they look at.

These practical points help facilitate living the dream.

I am a bit away from the dream part, and may not have as many models as warp, but I was born a planner. With luck and living below means, we will have good options by the times the kids are out of HS.

2. My dream - TBD

Not exactly sure what our dream looks like. I like the beach and the mountains. We are somewhat close to family geographically, but with my kids' ages (4th and 1st grade), life doesn't leave a ton of time to see family, but it is nice we can see them fairly frequently albeit socially distantly.

I could see splitting our time. If I retire early enough that I still can learn skills, would love to figure out the whole ski van thing - who knows by then it is extremely likely it could be electric and I wouldn't have the environmental guilt of a gas guzzling ski van . . . . Vermont electricity is expensive but ridiculously clean; NY electricity is cleaner than most states. In WV, you are cleaner to buy from a pump than plug in.
 
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