Milo Maltbie said:
My Florida relatives actually hate poor people, and are endlessly offended to see a poor person enjoy anything, but that's not me.
It's simple.
As a child, if you have enough bad experiences with specific individuals, you may attribute those experiences to a particualer group. An intelligent adult will recognize the circumstances of another person's life are unknowable, that communication is always difficult, and that it is the individual, not the group, that is ultimately responsible. That all takes mental enrgy, but as you get old, energy declines and you revert to your smaller, fearful lizard brain. Denial of your own mortality causes you to transfer your fear of death to the groups you feared as child. The process is accelerated in places like Florida where almost everyone is experiencing the same decline. The best hope of a happy old age is to avoid Florida, and spend more time with your grandchildren.
FWIW I've reached an advantced age, and that's the context you should read all my posts in.
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