Boy we heard about the 1918 pandemic it took my grandfather a young man of 32 who left an immigrant wife with 4 young kids .My dad was the eldest male at 9 and was the man of the family all during the depression . My grandmother and grandfather owned a tailor shop and gramma carried on then worked for a fine Women's Department store .
All 4 kids got advanced degrees and became something : My dad was an Insurance Company Director, My uncle became CEO of Pepperidge farms / Chef Boyardee and American Home Foods inc, ,one aunt became Dean of Nursing at a college and the other aunt was Executive Director of NYC Catholic Charities .
Inspite of the tragedy ,Gramma was just an awesome woman who was active and YOUNG AT HEART till the end .She lived her days out in Florida and Lake Placid in the summer where she worked for Frances Brewster a high end womens store in placid and Palm Beach . She was a beach lover so the college kids knew her as Granny and often asked her to mend their stuff. She was a piece of work with a heart of gold and a wicked sense of humor .She remarried in later life to a retired man.
One kinda sad little vignette about how this pandemic affected my 9 year old dad : My dad when i was a man appologized to me for absolutely no reason at all, he thought he was not a good dad because he HAD NO ROLE MODEL DAD growing up and had no childhood ( he was a fabulous role model and very caring , we kids and his grandkids JB and his sister loved him .
But my grandpa was gone before my time , i miss not having EITHER grandpa . My moms father died in 1936 when she was about to leave for college .So that 1918 pandemic and its residual aftermath affected our family as it did many others back in the day .