Are you saying that someone who has a clear awareness of the cost of their ski hobby can't be a "real skier" who cares about ski conditions and terrain? Or did I miss the sarcasm?
In any case, I sense a northeast bias in this discussion about Epic. Since I neither ski the northeast most of the time, nor have Epic, my thinking is based on using the MCP and/or Ikon mostly for ski trips out west.
It's been very easy for me to choose between Ikon/MCP and Epic. I don't happen to be interested in skiing at Epic resorts. That was true when Epic didn't cover the northeast at all. Still true after VR bought resorts in New England and the mid-Atlantic since I don't live within day trip distance of any Epic location. It's not about the lodging, food, or EpicMix. It's a matter of the terrain, vibe, and typical snow conditions.
I'm also in the minority of Ikon holders who also have Indy. I'll use Indy in the east this season in more than one region.