The reason people are judged for their vehicles is that typical rides have so little added utility beyond basic transportation that they can only be seen as an expression of one's personality and the way in which one wants to be seen in the world. I passed a McLaren which was driving slow in the ironically named passing lane on the Northway last week. Why did that guy feel the need to hold up traffic in a $250,000 car, if it wasn't just to prove he was richer than me? What use case is better served by an Escalade than a minivan, or even a hatchback with a roof box? It's all just conspicuous consumption to show everyone how you want to be perceived, so don't be offended when they judge you based on that perception.
@Campgottagopee you seem a little butt hurt because you think that people are judging you as an inconsiderate asshole who ignores the concerns of others just because you enjoy large vehicles, but I can assure you that I don't need to know what you drive to form a judgment.
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