A few points:
Guests who refused to pair up were traditionally teenagers. That's why Mountain Creek always did such a poor job with filling chairs. The covid era made this much worse and gave even more people a justification for this behavior. I say if you are unwilling to ride a gondola with other people, then don't ride the gondola. If you're not willing to ride a chair with other people, then don't ski. Refusing to fill all available seats is no different than cutting the line and you are not entitled to making everyone else wait longer.
Ski areas being in the hospitality business is not an excuse for bad operations. Given that there are social media accounts literally dedicated to complaining about lift lines, it's safe to say that shorter lines and more runs tends to increase guest satisfaction. This is not a ski area, but when the Six Flags chain of amusement parks was having low attendance numbers, guest satisfaction actually went up according to their surveys. Why? Because they were getting on more rides on each visit to the park.
I've often been disappointed in Gore's lift operations. It's not something they were ever the best at, but Gore is one of the few places that I have observed getting worse over the past 5-10 years, which is incredibly frustrating to watch. I mentioned in a different thread how I skied multiple President's Weekends at Gore growing up. I remember them always loading 8 on the gondola back then. The Adirondack Express, both the triple and quad versions, had a front row style queue with someone to direct the line on busy days. This continued when I went to college and started skiing at Gore on a more regular basis. I also remember all 3 high speed lifts running at 900-1000 fpm on crowded days, with the gondola and Burnt Ridge on the lower end of this range and the AE2 on the upper end.
Then things took a turn for the worse. In the 2018-2019 season, I noticed the AE2 started running much slower. It rarely exceeded 900 fpm anymore. The gondola and Burnt Ridge were actually faster now. I also noticed that they stopped loading 8 on the gondola around this time.
In the 2019-2020 season, they added RFID, which I've generally considered a good thing for most resorts. Unfortunately, Gore just implemented it very poorly. The gates are way too close to the lifts, and if one person's pass doesn't work, it holds up the entire line and chairs go up empty. This also ended any organization of the AE2's queue. While it sometimes had a singles line, they would never direct traffic or try to fill chairs.
We all know what happened in the covid year so let's fast forward to now. The lifts are still ridiculously slow, and only the gondola and AE2 even have singles lines. Staff have seemingly completely forgotten how to direct the lines and fill the seats because cabins/chairs are still going up half full on crowded days. There is no excuse for that. I just don't understand how they have gotten so much worse at moving people up the mountain.